Me and Holland

Me and Holland

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

What's a parent?

So, I've decided to ask the question: "What is a parent?"

Is a parent a person who gives birth to a child?
Is a parent a person who raises a child?
Do you have to give birth to a child in order to be a parent?
Does giving  birth to a child make you a parent?

According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, a parent is
  • One that begets or brings forth offspring
  • A person who brings up and cares for another
According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, a mother is
  • A female parent
  •  (1): a woman in authority; specifically: the superior of a religious community of women (2): an old or elderly woman
  • Maternal tenderness or affection
According to Merriam-Website dictionary, a father is
  • Maternal tenderness or affection
  • a: one related to another in a way suggesting that of father to child b: an old man —used as a respectful form of address
Does this answer any of my questions?  No!

I don't think you need to birth a child to be a parent and just becuase you birth a child, doesn't make you a parent.

I know people who have kids and they don't deserve them.  By saying that I mean that they only had the chid to get the "perks" of having kids, like the extra money, holding onto the past [an ex], hurting someone [payback], etc...  I also know people who have kids that have kids that deserve them and worked EXTRA hard to have kids.

I just wish people would respect and realize that there's people out there that can't have kids and here they are abusing that PRIVILAGE.

Being a parent and having a child is a PRIVILAGE, NOT A RIGHT!

I'm one of those people that wants that privilage to have a child.  After miscarriages, that privilage seems far off and non-reachable, while I look at worthless parents who keep popping kids out.

Wow! It's been a while!

Wow!  It's been a long long while.  Almost five months!!

Well, I'm back!!  :)